We had to put our 20 year old cat Mischief to sleep yesterday. Though we all knew it was coming, it does not make it any easier when the time arrives. Mischief had been living with the Blog Tech for the last year because one day Teddy suddenly decided that since Misch's poops were irresistible morsels, the whole cat might taste even better. We had put down her sister, Catsup around the same time and Misch was singularly defenseless against the mighty Chow Chow. So for safety reasons she moved in with the BT.
It was a really good decision because as he sat in his game room each night with his girlfriend, Misch would snuggle in his lap. She was very frail and arthritic and could no longer jump on sofas and chairs so he lovingly would lift her and comfort her for hours at a time.
Misch was a pip from day one. We got her when our first cat Catsup found her way outside and disappeared. We looked for 6 weeks for that kitty who was only a month old at the time. We finally gave up thinking that no little kitty could survive in the city that long. So we bought Misch. My kids were just 5 and 6 years old. The day after we got her I received a phone call from a woman several towns away that had found Catsup. We suddenly had two cats.
Misch had some close calls over the years. "Curiosity Killed The Cat" was written for her. One day I was cooking and heard an unusual noise and turned to see her swinging by her neck with the shade cord looped around it and the noise I heard was her little body bumping against the wall. Save #1 for Misch.
Then there was the time she mysteriously disappeared right after the kids left for school. I, along with some guys that were working on my house, spent the entire day searching every nook and cranny and neighbor's back yards looking for her. I was dreading picking my kids up from school and having to tell them Misch was gone. Just before I left to get them, I opened the snack cabinet to take out some after school treats and there was a very sleepy Misch laying on a bag of shredded wheat blinking at me and wondering why I was disturbing her sleep. I almost killed her right there and then. Save #2.
Misch could be a real sweetie pie too. When my daughter was a little girl, she would dress Misch in doll clothes and put blush on her cheeks and stick-on earrings on her ears. Misch could be quite glamorous at times.
Misch ate like a fullback up until the day before she died. That kitty could have lived on treats if we allowed it.
A couple of years ago she was diagnosed with renal failure. Cats can continue to live quite comfortably on as little as 10% of their kidneys functioning. At that time we chose not to medicate her. You couldn't get a pill down that kitty's throat with a shotgun and she was too old for that sort of punishment.
When the Blog Tech returned home from the baseball game yesterday, Misch was laying on the floor and could not move. He cuddled her in a blanket and went to the vet. The vet confirmed it was time and the Blog Tech held her as she peacefully crossed the rainbow bridge.
Why are these things so difficult? Death!!! The big scary monster just waiting to gobble us all up? I guess it is partly that, but I think these little furbabies are here to give us the unconditional love which we have so little of from so many humans.
Thanks you Misch for being such a special kitty and enriching our lives for so many years. You gave ever bit of spirit that you had in your little ten pound body and never held back one bit.
We will never forget you Mischkula!!!
PS.....as sad as this is I think it is better to go this way than death by Chow Chow. Teddy is doing happy dances in the bark yard.
It was a really good decision because as he sat in his game room each night with his girlfriend, Misch would snuggle in his lap. She was very frail and arthritic and could no longer jump on sofas and chairs so he lovingly would lift her and comfort her for hours at a time.
Misch was a pip from day one. We got her when our first cat Catsup found her way outside and disappeared. We looked for 6 weeks for that kitty who was only a month old at the time. We finally gave up thinking that no little kitty could survive in the city that long. So we bought Misch. My kids were just 5 and 6 years old. The day after we got her I received a phone call from a woman several towns away that had found Catsup. We suddenly had two cats.
Misch had some close calls over the years. "Curiosity Killed The Cat" was written for her. One day I was cooking and heard an unusual noise and turned to see her swinging by her neck with the shade cord looped around it and the noise I heard was her little body bumping against the wall. Save #1 for Misch.
Then there was the time she mysteriously disappeared right after the kids left for school. I, along with some guys that were working on my house, spent the entire day searching every nook and cranny and neighbor's back yards looking for her. I was dreading picking my kids up from school and having to tell them Misch was gone. Just before I left to get them, I opened the snack cabinet to take out some after school treats and there was a very sleepy Misch laying on a bag of shredded wheat blinking at me and wondering why I was disturbing her sleep. I almost killed her right there and then. Save #2.
Misch could be a real sweetie pie too. When my daughter was a little girl, she would dress Misch in doll clothes and put blush on her cheeks and stick-on earrings on her ears. Misch could be quite glamorous at times.
Misch ate like a fullback up until the day before she died. That kitty could have lived on treats if we allowed it.
A couple of years ago she was diagnosed with renal failure. Cats can continue to live quite comfortably on as little as 10% of their kidneys functioning. At that time we chose not to medicate her. You couldn't get a pill down that kitty's throat with a shotgun and she was too old for that sort of punishment.
When the Blog Tech returned home from the baseball game yesterday, Misch was laying on the floor and could not move. He cuddled her in a blanket and went to the vet. The vet confirmed it was time and the Blog Tech held her as she peacefully crossed the rainbow bridge.
Why are these things so difficult? Death!!! The big scary monster just waiting to gobble us all up? I guess it is partly that, but I think these little furbabies are here to give us the unconditional love which we have so little of from so many humans.
Thanks you Misch for being such a special kitty and enriching our lives for so many years. You gave ever bit of spirit that you had in your little ten pound body and never held back one bit.
We will never forget you Mischkula!!!
PS.....as sad as this is I think it is better to go this way than death by Chow Chow. Teddy is doing happy dances in the bark yard.
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my thoughts are with you and your family...
blessings
~*~
That is the hard part, us living long lives and our beloved ones living short ones. So so sorry.
With love,
S
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
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What a lovely tribute to your little Mischkula. Obviously she was greatly loved and I'm sure she felt fortunate to share her life and love with your family.I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies - Cindi
Misch' last moments sound so peaceful, to have the comfort of the BT as she passed is fitting.
May your sorrows pass quickly, and your memories live forever.
This cat had literally nine lives, the thing with the chord, Teddy's teeth, your "fury" and lived to be 20.
More than two years ago we have lost a hedgie - one son of our grumpy old girl Kretek. We were so sad we thought it would never be lifted from our hearts - but I came to feel that Sammael is now in the best place for him - along with Misch now.
she was just a sweetie...
oh, isn't it just the worst thing in this world....losing one of our sweet babies just rips your heart apart...
they just love you so much...no matter what...i am so very sorry for your loss....
i am thinking about you and your family...and sending love and sympathy
kary
Come by when you need some cheering up...
The thre of us...myself, Elvira, and Daddy Kiril, send our condolences.
I would like to share 2 Cat Themed Hymns of Comfort, that I've written the last couple of days.
One is similar to the Dog one I left for Erna's Human on his blog.
I hope theme help in a small way, to bring you comfort.
Just Another Stroll With Thee
and
How Kind You Are
Just click on my name, and you will find the first one, and alink to the 2nd.
Thinking off you, know how much this hurts as we lost ours recently too.
bb. jen
ppuurrrrrrr
PS: This might help, at little.
i've never had a pet for 20 years, you must have a lot of terrific memories. the ones you told here put a smile on my face.
blessing to you and your family.
The BT told me stories about her lively youth, including how she was smart enough to use doorknobs and would sometimes knock things over just because she liked to hear stuff breaking. As to the former, there are some *people* I'm surprised are smart enough to use doorknobs, and for the latter, I'm not sure I've ever heard of any other animal developing such a uniquely idiosyncratic habit.
Add to that her odd preference for having her eyes petted more than any other spot on her body, rubbing them against the corners of stairs and tables if you weren't petting them for her, and even at 20, a set of lungs that would make Fay Wray blush. When this little lady had something to say, and that was often, you could hear her anywhere in the house. All animals are a little like people in some ways, but occasionally one is so one-of-a-kind that their humanness is startling.
She loved everyone, fully and without fail. Every person, familiar or stranger, entering the game room would be greeted with a bright and forceful meow and ten pounds of love ambling right up to their feet. Nothing thrilled her more than when it was time for cuddling up with us in front of the TV. Old age didn't dull her feisty independence, however, and eventually it would kick in and she would unceremoniously abandon our laps to go do her own thing for a little while. But, a social creature at heart, she'd always be back for more sooner rather than later.
We always said goodnight to her before we went to sleep. Last night, I said goodnight to the basement door one last time and couldn't keep myself from crying.
She was unique, tenacious, and above all, heartbreakingly sweet.
I love you, Mischy. I know that wherever you are now, there are lots of breakable objects and corners. <3
Lara (the Blog Tech's girlfriend)
Bless Mischief's little heart!
She had such a long and wonderful life with you and your family... with you taking such good care of her.
She was a very blessed cat and I know she paid you back with all of her love that she gave!
(((Big hugs to you!)))
xx
You can at least treasure the special years that you got to spend with Misch during her life :) Seems like it was a very long and special life. <3
Blessings,
Soraya
Take care.
Christer.
xoxo
This was a beautiful tribute to her.
Btw what a beauty she was!!
My heart hurts for you. I wish there were words to ease your loss, but I know that there are none. Please find solace in the fact that she knew she was well loved, and that's the most any of us can hope for.
The fact that she was 20 and still able to eat and be cuddled by Blog Tech, is a tribute to how you've all cared for her.
Now I need to go run and get a kleenex....
LisaDay
I'm so sorry for your family's loss - I know your (and Blog Tech's) house feels much emptier now - but I'm so glad this sweet girl didn't suffer. Hugs to you from me in Oregon.